URGENT: Write Your Own Obituary

Take a moment and write your own obituary.  What will you be remembered for?  What contributions to this earth and it's community have you made?  Take a moment to look at the big picture.  This is an important exercise when going through a separation or divorce.  It is easy to get bogged down in the moment, find ourselves fighting for something that in 25 years will not impact anything that we will value, yet the "fight" could negatively impact the relationships in our lives...forever.  Whether we have three hours of parenting time or four hours...who gets the granite table....if we keep the big picture in mind...what choices will we make.